Embrace Your Marriage: A Virtual Marriage Retreat

Have you been hoping to attend a marriage retreat?

But maybe you just haven’t been able to get away.

Or maybe you’ve both been way too busy.

Or perhaps you simply haven’t been able to afford it.

Well, how you would you like to come to our Virtual Marriage Retreat?

You don’t even have to leave the house (unless you want to) and it doesn’t cost a thing.

Yes, I’m totally serious. Lovely idea, isn’t it? I thought so too.

That’s why I’m so excited to share with you this new Marriage Series starting the 1st of September!

Embrace Your Marriage - A Virtual Marriage Retreat

Every Monday in September, each of the following blogs will be offering a word of wisdom and inspiration to encourage you in your marriage. You can meet my wonderful blogger friends over at the following sites . . . .

And here’s what you have to look forward to!

  • September 1 – Embracing Grace 
  • September 8th – Embracing Change  
  • September 15th – Embracing Your Differences  
  • September 22nd – Embracing Unity 
  • September 29th – Embracing Friendship 

So mark your calendar and join us each week as we all share on these very important topics in marriage. And be sure and invite any friends who might be blessed by this event as well.

Looking forward to seeing you on Monday!

*If you have topics or questions that you would like covered in this series, would you let me know? Either in a comment below, or on my contact page? I’ll do my best to cover it if I can!

In His grace,
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100 Ways to Love Your Husband by Lisa Jacobson and 100 Ways to Love Your Wife by Matthew L Jacobson

Why Wait Until the Fourth of July to Set Off Spectacular Fireworks?

Why Wait Until the Fourth of July to Set Off Fireworks

I’m hoping you won’t think any less of me.

But I’m not really much of a texter.

I know that puts me hopelessly behind the times and my dear husband has done his best to bring me up to speed. He even went out and got me a snazzy smart phone.

So one day I heard this peculiar swoosh sound emanating from the thing. Curious, I picked it up and saw there was a green bubble square indicating I had a message.

A message? For me??

And suddenly I’m a young girl in junior high who’s just been passed a carefully folded-up note – intended only for my eyes.

No name given, but I recognized the number. Knew it by heart. It was his.

The message went like this: “Hey Gorgeous, you’re my girl.”

That’s it. That’s all he said.

But, ooh-hoo! Did that ever light some spectacular fireworks in my heart! I nearly swooned with love for the guy.

And I decided that I liked my new phone.

And I liked texting.

And I sure did like him.

It also got me thinking . . .

What about a reply? I should write back to him. What kind of “note” could I deliver in return? Hmmm…..

So I set out on one of my secret campaigns – a little love campaign.

Each day I wanted to say something I loved or appreciated about him.

Just one thing. Short and sweet.

Things I figured he knew? But just in case he had any doubts or it wasn’t as clear as it could have been.

Oh yes, I was going to try and send a few fireworks his way as well.

On some days I whispered my message in his ear. On others I shared it quite loudly in front of the children. I sent out emails and scribbled notes and left them on his desk. I even – believe it or not –  texted a line or two.

So maybe you’re considering starting a little Love Campaign of your own?

If so, I highly recommend it. It’s really quite fun – with or without a snazzy smart phone – and you just might find that two people can play this game.

Looking for ideas? Here’s a sampling of the ones I sent out to him:

  • I couldn’t do this without you. And I wouldn’t want to either.
  • Honey, you make me laugh!
  • I loved being with you this morning.
  • You are my knight in shining armor.
  • I’m crazy about you, Baby.
  • You’re a good dad. Making homemade ice-cream with the kids at 10:00 pm!
  • I miss you when you’re gone.
  • I was glad for your clear head in that difficult situation earlier today.
  • This is my favorite place to be. Snuggled up in your arms.
  • Thank you for looking after me.
  • My heart belongs to you. Always.

And if you’re wondering if my strategy was successful?

Well, yes, I’d like to think it was.

He seemed to like my notes and messages. I could tell by the way he smiled and by the way he hugged me extra tight when he got home at night.

I mean, why wait until the Fourth of July to set off the fireworks?

A few thoughtful words – written, whispered, spoken, and texted too. Little love notes scattered everywhere.

And spectacular fireworks all year round!

In His grace,
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Summer Marriage Splash Series

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So do you have a favorite season?

Mine is summer. Hands down.

I love the sunshine.

I love the lighter schedule.

And I love reading on our front porch swing with a glass of iced tea.

Would you believe I already have a stack of books waiting impatiently for me and for summer to begin?

How about you? What do you enjoy about summer? And what books will you be reading?

I have some recommendations, if you’re looking for any. I have read each of these books below and each one has blessed me and encouraged my marriage in a different way.

And with that in mind,  recently the authors and I got together and decided we should celebrate summer by putting on a fun Summer Marriage Splash!

Five days. Five bloggers. Five books.

Yes, every day this week, we’re going to be sharing something encouraging and inspiring for your marriage. How’s that for a terrific way to kick off the summer?

Here’s how it’s going to work. Today is my day (as you see) and then here is the schedule for the rest of the gals.

I hope you’ll get the chance to visit each every one of them and benefit from their wisdom and insight. You’ll be very glad you did!

So grab an iced tea (if you like)  and then hop on over to my post here and then on over to each of the others as the week unfolds. I’ll look forward to seeing you over there . . .

With many blessings on you, your marriage, and the warm summer months to come!

In His grace,
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Summer Marriage Splash Book Recommendations:

The Virtuous LifeThe Virtuous Life of a Christ-Centered Wife: 18 Powerful Lessons for Personal Growth by Darlene Schacht

“Powerful, is right. This is such an encouraging and challenging book for any wife to pick up – whether she’s newly married or been married for many years.” ~ Amazon review

Time-WarpWife: Keeping Christ at the Center of Marriage

Women Living Well by Courtney JosephWomen Living Well: Find Your Joy in God, Your Man, Your Kids, and Your Home by Courtney Joseph

“I came away from the book with practical tips to loving my family better, making my home a haven and strengthening my relationship with Christ.” ~ Amazon review

WomenLivingWell: Finding Joy in God, Your Man, Your Kids and Your Home

Wife After God by Jennifer SmithWife After God: Drawing Closer to God & Your Husband
by Jennifer Smith

“Whether you are going through a rough patch in your marriage (like we all do!) or your marriage is doing wonderfully, there is something in here to encourage, challenge you and help you improve your marriage and your walk with The Lord.” ~ Amazon review

Unveiled Wife: Encouraging Wives Daily

Team US by Ashleigh Slater Team Us: Marriage Together
by Ashleigh Slater

“Team Us is a lighthearted, encouraging read with a poignant message: marriage is one of the greatest adventures God gives us in this life. Make the most of it!” ~ Amazon review

AshleighSlater: Encouraging Couples to do Marriage Together

200429208-001100 Ways to Love Your Husband by Lisa Jacobson

“This is a “must have” little book for every married woman or yet to be married woman! It comprises 100 practical little thoughts, well laid out and each one profound and challenging in its own way.” ~ Amazon review

Club31Women: Sharing a Passion for Husband, Home and Family

 

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The First 5 Steps Toward a Loving Marriage: A Summer Marriage Splash

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How do you create a loving marriage?

That’s what she asked and that’s the question that stopped me right in my tracks.

It was late afternoon and we had just returned from running errands, so I was scurrying about putting groceries away while trying to figure out what we should have for dinner.

Our daughter had been chattering away at me and I had been listening. Or somewhat listening. But mostly I was concerned how I was going to make room in the freezer for all the ground beef we’d picked up in town.

But when she threw that question at me? Well, that put a halt to everything.

Suddenly dinner – or freezer space – didn’t seem all that important.

I think it was that she used the word create that got my attention. Seemed so insightful for a teenage girl to pick such a word. Not “have” or “get” or even “find” – but CREATE. Such a big, powerful word when you think about it.

So I closed the freezer and we sat down at the kitchen table and dove into a good, long talk.

I closed my eyes and mulled her question over in my mind.

Then I mentioned one thing. Then another. And then finally laughed, “Oh, it’s that and about a hundred other things!”

And that was how the book, 100 Ways to Love Your Husband, really started.

So here’s the beginning answer to that big question, How Do You Create a Loving Marriage?

#1

Always choose love.

Above all things. I Corinthians 13

#2

Greet him with a loving smile.

Who wouldn’t love coming home to that every night? Even if you are tired too. Or have something else on your mind. Put that aside for just a while to make his day wonderful with your warm, loving smile. There are not many smiles out in the world these days, so let yours be one of the few and the best in his life.

#3

Let the little things go.

Don’t hang on to small annoyances. So many marriages have slowly deteriorated over the smallest, silliest things. He doesn’t take out the trash? He snores at night? He’s terrible about leaving the laundry on the floor? It’s not all that big of a deal. Just put it behind you and get on with loving him instead.

#4

Work through the big things.

Take the time to talk those through. Yes, it might mean some hard work and long hours, but it will be worth it. Don’t let the things that really matter go. It’s worth the effort to address it and deal with it. Otherwise, you’re left with a shallow and/or a hurting relationship. No way. Go deep.

#5

Don’t try to change him.

He’s a good man just as he is. He might have room to grow – but then again, so do you. Leave that work to the Holy Spirit. He (the Spirit) is always so much more effective than we’ll ever be. So don’t make it your job to transform him, but to simply love him.

And so goes the list of 100 Ways to Love Your Husband. Simple steps really. But things I wish I’d have known and understood when I started my married life with him. I think it would have helped – helped a lot, actually. Which is why I wrote them down for you, or maybe for someone you know.

So if you’re looking for some fresh ideas or new encouragement in your marriage? I invite you to come along on this journey with me. Or if someone you know is soon to be married , she might  benefit from this “little handbook” on marriage as well (plus there’s the companion book to go with it, 100 Ways to Love Your Wife, written by my husband).

My hope and prayer is that people all over would come to enjoy loving marriages that are lasting and that honor God.

And that’s my prayer for you too.

100 Ways to Love Your Husband: A Life-Long Journey of Learning To Love  is currently available in both print and digital format. You can get the book here.

*This post is the first of the Summer Marriage Splash series going on all this week. Please be sure and check out Darlene’s post on Time-Warp Wife! Also, you can see who’s coming up by peaking at the authors of the books below. 

In His grace,
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Summer Marriage Splash Book Recommendations:

The Virtuous LifeThe Virtuous Life of a Christ-Centered Wife: 18 Powerful Lessons for Personal Growth by Darlene Schacht

“Powerful, is right. This is such an encouraging and challenging book for any wife to pick up – whether she’s newly married or been married for many years.” ~ Amazon review

Time-WarpWife: Keeping Christ at the Center of Marriage

Women Living Well by Courtney JosephWomen Living Well: Find Your Joy in God, Your Man, Your Kids, and Your Home by Courtney Joseph

“I came away from the book with practical tips to loving my family better, making my home a haven and strengthening my relationship with Christ.” ~ Amazon review

WomenLivingWell: Finding Joy in God, Your Man, Your Kids and Your Home

Wife After God by Jennifer SmithWife After God: Drawing Closer to God & Your Husband
by Jennifer Smith

“Whether you are going through a rough patch in your marriage (like we all do!) or your marriage is doing wonderfully, there is something in here to encourage, challenge you and help you improve your marriage and your walk with The Lord.” ~ Amazon review

Unveiled Wife: Encouraging Wives Daily

Team US by Ashleigh Slater Team Us: Marriage Together
by Ashleigh Slater

“Team Us is a lighthearted, encouraging read with a poignant message: marriage is one of the greatest adventures God gives us in this life. Make the most of it!” ~ Amazon review

AshleighSlater: Encouraging Couples to do Marriage Together

200429208-001100 Ways to Love Your Husband by Lisa Jacobson

“This is a “must have” little book for every married woman or yet to be married woman! It comprises 100 practical little thoughts, well laid out and each one profound and challenging in its own way.” ~ Amazon review

Club31Women: Sharing a Passion for Husband, Home and Family

 

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