And I was reminded of the power of multiplied prayer a few weeks ago when I got together with my best college pals.
I shared that pic on my Instagram feed, along with one taken a few (okay, more than a few) years earlier:
What makes this group precious to me (apart from the fact that we share memories now like we shared clothes back then – which, given that we mostly wore leg warmers and shoulder pads, was maybe not as appealing as it sounds) is the way that these girls talk to God. We’re spread up and down the east coast, but all it takes is a phone call or a text message to prompt us to pray. And, more often than not, the request is for one of our kids.
It sounds simple now, but it wasn’t always that way.
The Prayer Circle Letter
None of us had gotten very far along in our parenthood journey before we realized that we were in way over our heads. Don’t get me wrong; motherhood was (and is) an incredible blessing. But you know how all the young moms share their birth stories on social media now? I’ll just go ahead and tell you that, the day after Hillary entered the world, I was pulling the nurse cord to ask the epidural man to come back and give me the full-body treatment this time. (And did they have an extra to-go needle that I could maybe take home?)
I knew I’d need help. And so did my friends, when they left the hospital with their own bundles-of-joy. We wanted each other’s support but spread out as we were (one of us lived in Japan!), we couldn’t just pop by with a casserole, a burp cloth, and some wine. The best we could do was to pray.
And in what I still consider one of her most inspired decisions, Annesley (top middle, in the old college pic) came up with a way to keep us connected. We didn’t have access to email chains, Facebook groups, or text threads (nobody had invented the internet yet), so Annesley started a letter. We could, she said, write our prayer requests on actual paper and pass the letter around. We’d pray for each other’s needs, record God’s answers, add new requests, and then pop the whole thing into a new envelopeand send it on. A prayer circle, facilitated by postage stamps!
I have no idea how many times that thing made the loop, or where it is now. But when the girls and I got together last month, we didn’t need a written letter to let us know that God had been at work in our families’ lives. Our kids’ needs have changed over the years, but God hasn’t. And what a joy it was to remind one another that our kids’ stories are still being written!
The Power of Multiplied Prayer
Praying with other people is nothing new; again, Daniel recruited his buddies; Moses had Aaron and Hur to hold up his arms; and Esther called all the Jews in her city to fast and pray. God loves it when his children get together – and he loves to listen to us, even if we’re not actively trying to get his attention! Consider Malachi 3:16: “Then those who feared the Lord talked with each other, and the Lord listened and heard.”
Lest there be any doubt about the power that is unleashed when believers connect with one another in prayer, Jesus put it very plainly for his disciples:
“I tell you,” he says in Matthew 18:19-20, “if two of you on earth agree about anything they ask for, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven. For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.”
When two or three of us get together, Jesus is there. That is, says bestselling author Ray Stedman in his book, Talking with My Father, “the charter principle underlying all prayer meetings.”
If you don’t already have a friend or two who will join you as you pray for your child, ask God to give you a prayer partner. Be alert to the names he might put on your heart, and don’t be afraid to take the initiative and invite people to pray with you. You don’t have to be formal or fancy – and you certainly don’t need to start by writing a letter that you can all pass around.
Just come together. And know that Jesus will be with you in your prayer circle.
Jodie Berndt is the bestselling author of the Praying the Scriptures series for Children, Teens, and Adult Children—books that have been featured on Focus on the Family, The 700 Club, Fox News, and in many other programs, parenting magazines, and podcasts. She and her husband, Robbie, have four grown children and two sons-in-law.
Find Jodie writing at JodieBerndt.com (where you can download free resources like printable prayer cards and monthly prayer calendars).