How to Easily Encourage Character Qualities Your Family Values

Reading aloud can instill some excellent family values into your children. There are so many benefits!!

I remember hundreds of evenings, in the hours between dinner and bedtime, that one of my parents would read aloud to the ten of us. We’d race through the dishes and other chores, help the little ones put on pajamas, and gather in the living room for the next installment of the current book.

Reading aloud to children has many benefits, from building vocabulary and reading skills, to imparting wisdom in a non-threatening context. One of my favorite benefits is the way reading aloud builds family culture.

Those evenings, full of handwork (ranging from shoe polishing to basket weaving to gun cleaning to embroidery), laughter, silly toddlers, and the occasional parental admonition of “Hush, I’m READING!” gave us great memories. They gave us shared experiences, too: “knowing” the same characters, reliving the stories through imaginative play and occasionally even a home theatrical production, and wonderful inside jokes.

Best of all, it was a painless and non-preachy way for my parents to encourage character traits that our family valued. Through the enchanting medium of story, we absorbed powerful lessons on hard work, honesty, kindness, generosity, and loyalty. Here are some of our favorites.

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C.A. Stephens

C.A. Stephens, though relatively unknown today, is one of my favorite authors. A writer for The Youth’s Companion at the turn of the century, this series contains stories of six cousins growing up on their grandparents’ farm in Maine just after the Civil War. Fascinating for all ages (with plenty of adventure to hold boys’ attention!), they present an engaging picture of life on an old-fashioned farm, complete with tales of logging, trapping, haymaking, maple sugaring, the village academy, and every kind of fun you can imagine. If you enjoyed Laura Ingalls Wilder’s Farmer Boy, you’ll love these!

C.A. Stephens’ books were published around 1910, so keep your eyes open for them at antique bookstores, or grab the Kindle editions if available.

Some collections of selected stories have been published more recently and may be easier to find:

The Moffats and The Pyes

Eleanor Estes wrote two series that make wonderful read alouds. Four books follow the Moffat family – a widowed mother and her four children living in a small town during the first World War. The other two are about another family (the Pyes) in the same town, and their adventures with their dog, Ginger, and cat, Pinky. Very innocent, happy books. I really appreciate the family interaction and lack of sibling rivalry, disrespect, and bad attitudes.

  1. The Moffats
  2. The Middle Moffat
  3. Rufus M.
  4. The Moffat Museum
  1. Ginger Pye
  2. Pinky Pye

Betsy-Tacy Series

Maud Hart Lovelace is the author of a semi-autobiographical series about innocent little girls growing up in small-town Minnesota at the turn of the century. These sweet books were some of my childhood favorites. They tackle subjects like honesty, forgiveness, inclusion, respect, and loyalty without being moralistic or preachy. While the series continues to follow Betsy through young adulthood, the latter books don’t lend themselves as well to reading aloud. I’d certainly recommend them to teen girls, though!

  1. Betsy-Tacy
  2. Betsy-Tacy and Tib
  3. Betsy and Tacy Go Over The Big Hill
  4. Betsy and Tacy Go Downtown

Understood Betsy 

Most of Dorothy Canfield Fisher’s novels are written for adults, but this one is an excellent read-aloud for children. Elizabeth Ann, who has been coddled to the point of physical and mental atrophy, is transplanted to a relative’s farm in Vermont. She learns to think for herself, to think of others, and to overcome her fears. An entertaining story that encourages responsibility and maturity without being heavy-handed.

Fairchild Family Series

Rebecca Caudill is the author of these sweet books about a family in the Appalachians. The stories center around adorable four-year-old Bonnie and are especially suitable for younger children (although so well-written they are enjoyable for all ages). Bonnie and her older siblings work, play, attend a one-room schoolhouse, navigate mountain paths and flooded rivers, and call out the best in each other’s personality and character.

I hope some of these titles will become beloved classics in your home, as well. I know they are favorites that I’m using to help build a strong family culture in my own home now.

Do you have any read-aloud books to add to the list? Leave a comment!

In His grace,

Jeannie Pederson

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Jeannie Pederson Jeannie Pederson is a wife and mom of four young children. Her home is sometimes messy, but the door is always open. Besides writing, she enjoys the outdoors and adventuring with her family. She's also a small business owner, offering clothing for active families at Heart and Trail. You can follow her on Instagram.

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